If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say, Don’t Be a Reference Sometimes maximum awkwardness is worth it, if it means you can be honest. Author: Roxane Gay Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)MoreClick to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Advertisements{ "slotId": "6845006044", "unitType": "responsive", "resize": "auto" }